My father, Dan Hogan, has repeatedly promised to help me fully recover, and he has always broken his promises. Despite the fact that I am sick, poor, weak, and powerless, but he is very wealthy and has power, he says he will only help me if I obey all of his arbitrary conditions. In the past, I have met his arbitrary conditions, but he changed the conditions after I met them. In recent months, he has stopped telling me what his arbitrary conditions are. He says he will help me if I allow him to help me, which is ridiculous because I do not prevent him from helping me.
A few moments ago, he once again sent a delusional message to me. He sent help to me by sending US$50. He knows that I do not have food, medicine, shelter, or money, and he sent the money after I publicly asked for help. He knows that sending money helps me. With the money, however, he wrote, “Our offer of shelter, clothing, food, [and] (sic) medicine is still yours to accept. Let us help you.” (He remarried, hence “our” and “us.”)
I have already “accepted” multiple offers from him and met his arbitrary conditions. He has not defined any new conditions I must meet before he will decide that I no longer need to suffer from a curable illness and to be at constant risk of sexual assault, battery, theft, and death. His condition for helping me is that I allow him to help me. Today, he reminded me—by helping me—that his condition for helping me is that I allow him to help me—which I allowed. Yes, it is a illogical statement.
For a long time, I believed my father, Dan Hogan, was merely being cruel to me. Now, I think the problem is likely a cognitive defect related to his age. His actions are exactly the same as screaming, “I am not screaming!” He sent a message to me—with money to help me—telling me that I will not allow him to help me. He has done this precise action many times for a few years. I have pointed out the absurdity many times, but he has not acknowledged his irrational behavior or changed his nonsensical statements. Therefore, the best explanation is a cognitive defect. (For a comparison, see this video about Donald Trump’s cognitive impairment.)
Here is a partial list of messages he has sent me using his illogical language:
My father, Dan Hogan, is wealthy enough to send me thousands of dollars today, which would be enough for me to heal and be self-sufficient. Whether he has a cognitive defect or he is simply a horrible person, it is unrealistic for us to believe he will support my recovery. I need your support.